Frustration

It’s been a frustrating morning.  I had to fill out paperwork to get Emma on State Health insurance.  A little background. Emma’s biological father committed suicide several years ago. She never got the chance to know him, which was his choice.  That in it’s self is a long story.  So Brian stepped in as a father figure when Emma was 8 months old. He’s the only father she’s ever known. Over the last few months he’s decided he doesn’t want to be in that role anymore.  Hence me having to have her on state insurance. He said it’s not his responsibility to provide her with health care that it is her biological father’s. Since he’s dead then the state has to pay. 

How someone can turn their back on a child like that is just beyond me.  Emma will be 13 in April, she’s lost her biological father and now she’s lost the one who stepped in all those years ago. He’s made it clear to her also he is not her father.  I just can’t wrap my head around how you can do that.  I have to wonder if when his own children reach a certain age if he won’t do the same thing. 

I’ve been wanting to blog about so much for so long but was afraid of drama. So instead I’ve just not blogged at all.  Well, very little compared to what I used to.  I’m to the point I just don’t care anymore.  If you don’t' believe then fine that’s on you.  I would have no reason to say it, if it were not true.  All you have to do is ask the children who hear the things he says.

It’s been tearing me up inside to see him treat Emma this way.  She has shed so many tears over this.  Which just kills me. If you knew Emma you would know what a sensitive loving person she is. 

I wrote this blog, not so everyone can bash Brian but for advice on how to handle this.  I see it affecting her in a negative way. She is longing for that attention and going about it the wrong way.  That again is for another blog.  I considered putting her in therapy but I fear that will open up a whole can of worms that I’m not prepared to deal with.  Those that know what all has been going on will understand what I mean by that.

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